- 5 years ago
I don’t want to get my hopes up too much, but SO is doing everything he can to get the process moving along. Originally he said he wanted to pay off his credit card before he started to save for a ring, and that it may be May before he could start saving. I was a little bummed by that but relieved he had a plan.
Ever since, he has been watching his spending and putting every bit of extra money towards his card as possible. And on Friday, he told me he was going to use his tax money to pay off the remaining balance because he has “other more important matters to attend to” and that he would be able to start saving very soon. !!!!!!
I have been letting the topic be, and he has been the one to bring it up each time. I firmly believe shutting your mouth does wonders! Guys respond so much better when not under pressure.
Hang in there, waiting bees.