(Closed) I’m tired of my bridesmaids!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@bells: These are not minor things! They are the details you (THE BRIDE) want and are choosing. Tell them you’ve given them plenty of options and choices for what you want, it’s not like you nailed them down to one super specific thing.

It’s time to say: “Hush your faces and fall in line…it’s one damn day, and it’s ours. End of story.”

Why is it the more freedom you give some people in their choices, the more they want to complain about it? I’ve never understood that.

Post # 5
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163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I don’t think your being a bridezilla at all! This is your day and if they didn’t want to be a part of it then they should have declined the offer to be a bridesmaid in the first place.  You are the BRIDE, so at this point everyone should only be trying to make things easier for your rather than complicate them! You deserve to have things your way because if it were their day I’m sure you wouldn’t be acting this way towards them. 

Post # 6
Member
5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@bells:I agree, I’m not a fan of the “shut up it’s my day” line of thinking either. But honestly, I’m a SUPER laid back person, and it seems people suddenly like to run all over that and although I have ideas of what I want, they can suddenly change that for me. I’ve almost lost it SEVERAL times on a few select people.

 

Post # 8
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220 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Aw sorry to hear they are being like this..it sounds like they are being a bit selfish and forgetting to concentrate on your, it is your wedding! I have found that people can forget that along the way! How frustrating – hate it when people do this to you at the last minute – with 20 days to go you should be getting the maximum support from those around you. You sound like you have been a very thoughtful and patient bride. I hope you have an amazing day – you will (despite these hiccups)!x

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