I'm torn, what should I do?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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8044 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I would save up for Paris and go there at a later time.

Normally I would say that vacations always trump a one-day event, but I don’t see why you can’t do both in this case. I am assuming that the backyard wedding isn’t a hugely lavish affair that’s going to put you into debt for the next 5 years. You’ve wanted to do it your whole life… friends and family and FI is on board.. I would stick with it.

Paris will still be there.

Post # 4
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300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Stick with what you two were super excited about. 

Go to Paris to renew wedding vows (:

Post # 6
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300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@marinesfiance:  Yeah, we got married in Toronto in secret before our wedding. Although they know we didn’t get MARRIED married, no one questioned it. 

 

Paris is great, but not gunna lie, out of the 3 times I went, the wedding week was stressful. 

It’s a city you need to be completely relazed in. 

 

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