(Closed) I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2343 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

honestly, i never ever felt stressed. i had everything organised a week before the wedding so i wasnt rushing round like a mad woman, i actually relaxed and enjoyed it all. i dropped my stuff off to the venue the day before then went home and relaxed. it doesnt have to be a massive stress – i dont know why some people are soooo stressed out before their wedding. and ours wasnt a simple wedding, we had lots of details etc, but i think the key is being organised!!!

Post # 4
5007 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I haven’t really found it stressful either. I thought it was going to be so much work, but if you just take things one step at a time, it’s not that big of a deal. I’m planning from out of state and have a useless wedding planner who hasn’t done anything, so I’m pretty much doing everything on my own. I’m also finishing my PhD and planning a cross-country move haha. I’m not a very dramatic person and am pretty laid back about my wedding (not laid back in general!), plus it’s all so fun!!

Post # 5
2343 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

everything you can do now, do. take an hr a day or whatever to do something for the wedding. the more u do the less ull be stressed at the time.

Post # 6
63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Im 2 months out from my wedding….im def starting to feel the stress esp since its a Destination Wedding which means I have to have everything done a couple weeks ahead of time. no last minute things! ialso have a lot of things that cant be done until we have a final count :-/


Post # 7
580 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Meh, I never really felt the stress. I won’t say that I never had stressful moments, but I had a very laid back wedding. My job is pretty stressful, so I think that probably had something to do with it…I found wedding planning a break from that kind of stress. 

Post # 8
2553 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@runfaster:  The only stress I have is really just from anxiety. I just keep thinking about all the terrible things that “could” happen…the kind of things you cant prevent by planning extra hard or something.

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