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Welcome! You're in great company here and many of us are in similar shoes (Louboutins, hopefully!)
Dig through some of the 'waiting' threads and maybe gain some insight : )
*hugs* hardest place to be in, the talking about it but waiting for it to happen. I'm still there, and it's rough. Unfortunately, you can't FORCE the boy to do anything but you can try to get him to talk to you about what's bothering him- maybe he's come into some unexpected financial problems or maybe he realized he was over estimating what he can afford. Talk it out, but don't force the issue.
Welcome to the Hive!!! You definitely can't force him to do anything... I wouldn't bring it up to him anymore... Just let him bring it up to you.
Thanks for your comments! I just needed to vent... but we looked at two different jewelers today, (he surprisingly sat through two hours of that!) We found a ring we both really like, and well within his budget, which randomly went up $1000 when we went into the store?! Anyways, I'm happy and hopefully he will get that or something similar and be happy with it. I know I'm picky, but when it comes down to it, it's not going to matter that much. It's a gift and I do want him to pick it out. Thanks again ladies :) PS this is the ring we were looking at...
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Hi everyone, I'm new and have read many of the waiting posts. They definitely make me feel a little less crazy about waiting. I thought i was the only one going crazy waiting to get married!
Here's my short story - BF and I have been dating for almost 2.5 years. It was a love at first sight thing... neither of us were looking, but somehow knew we were "the one." We were at a distance (2 hour drive,) for the first year until I moved in with him. Have been living together since.
Talk of rings has been throughout this time... I wanted Verragio, but the price was way out of his range. I found something else I loved, and then then it was too expensive for him all of the sudden, even though it's the price range he told me! I am from a big city and he is from the country, so our tastes differ a little I guess. I just want to give him an idea of what I like and what is a decent diamond, (as he has no idea about jewelry.) Whatever he gets me, I know I will love it.
I don't want to fight about this, and I try not to talk about it since it always turns into a fight. I know he wants to surprise me and I guess he doesn't want it to be on my mind. But of course it is, wether I say it or not. Then, he tells me he wants to take me ring shopping... how am I not supposed to talk about it????