Important PSA for all women

posted 3 years ago in Career
Post # 3
2581 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

@MichiganGirl24:  I think this should be a PSA for anyone. The majority of floppy rubbish handshakes I’ve had in the last year or so have come from men.

Post # 4
1250 posts
Bumble bee

ugh my FI has a terrible handshake. He’s left handed, so his right handed handshakes are similar to shaking a crab claw. I’ve been trying to get him to fix it for years! lol

Post # 7
7012 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!


My pet peeve is when men assume that as a woman I can’t properly shake their hand and I get the half grip/wet fish from them when I go in for a full handshake. 

Post # 8
1627 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

One of my pals used to offer hand in a way that someone would have to hold it. I made her practice a real handshake wjth me lol. 

Post # 10
536 posts
Busy bee

Good PSA.  If you shake a guy’s hand and he says “Wow! That’s a nice handshake you’ve got there!”, you’re doing it right.  

Post # 11
2372 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

Sometimes I equate a limp handshake to “I don’t really care whatever, I’m bored already”, like you’re not really invested in whatever it is we’re doing.

Post # 12
1134 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@theEguarantee:  I’m left handed so I totally get it. My handshake isn’t bad, like not shaking a dead fish, but it could be firmer. I’m not a righty so it takes some effort lol. 

I think another thing people should know is DON’T SHAKE WITH WET HANDS. There is nothing more gross than when you reach to shake someone’s hand, and it’s wet. Or worse, SWEATY. Ughhh just thinking about it is grossing me out. 

Post # 13
1250 posts
Bumble bee

@MichiganGirl24:  i know! his right hand just has no idea what it’s doing. and i tell him people wont get a good impression of him doing that. i’m working on it lol

Post # 14
2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

ewww just thinking about limp handshakes is grossing me out. you’re totally right, it’s the worst. i think i’m a really good hand shaker, personally.

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