(Closed) In laws like a bad luck charm?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

While I understand your position and why you do not like his family, but he has made it clear that he wants them there. Do your best to ignore X and enjoy your family and friends that will be there to share your special day with you.

After the wedding, sit down with your husband and explain to him that while you understand this person is family, you would like to only deal with them on a minimum basis. This person lives in a different country than you. I don’t think you will have much to worry about once he or she goes back.

Post # 4
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m so sorry. That’s a really difficult situation, with no clear correct answer. My heart goes out to you. 

Post # 7
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

It sounds like a sucky situation, but your Fiance seems to want his only living family at your wedding, you can’t really do anything except suck it up and kill them with kindness.

Post # 9
3689 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

X abandoned your fiance as a child, but is all palsy-walsy with your father?  Why???  

I’m sorry your fiance only has crappy relatives left, but he’s being a moron.  I don’t believe in letting people treat me like crap because we’re related biologically.  Tell him flat out you’re not going to take any shit from X.  Because X doesn’t really give a damn about him.  

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