(Closed) In love vs loving someone

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
567 posts
Busy bee

i think love comes easier than “in love.” i love dh because i trust him, he’s my best friend, etc.  i’m i”in love” with dh because of the x factor – this unspoken connection.  the “i can’t wait to just *be* with you all the time. i don’t want to be trite and say soul mates, but you get the idea.  it, for me, has nothing to do with the sparks of sex/infatuation (that’s a whole other story).

Post # 4
Member
3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i think theres a difference… i am in love with my dh… like seriously! hes my better half:)… but i love cheese, i love wb, i love my furbabies… (okay maybe im in love with them too!) 🙂

Post # 5
Member
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I definitely agree there’s a difference.. I love plenty of people.. My family, my best friends, I love my cat, and I love chocolate.. But I am so in love with hubby it’s ridiculous. I love him for the person he is, I love spending time with him, but I know that I am in love with him because it’s just such a different feeling.. I can’t even really explain it.. It is like a deeper connection..

Post # 6
Member
567 posts
Busy bee

as far as saying “i love you” or “i’m in love with you” i say “i love you.” i rarely say “i’m in love with you”…..i don’t know why.  I’m in love sounds….fleeting? i feel like i said it at the beginning of our relationship, but not so much now. idk why. sometimes if i’m feeling really sappy i say “i’m more in love with you now than ever before” lol.

The topic ‘In love vs loving someone’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors