In Love With Two People At The Same Time

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: In Love With Two People At The Same Time?
    That is absolutely impossible. : (31 votes)
    20 %
    It's definitely possible. : (35 votes)
    23 %
    You can love someone and not be in love with them. : (56 votes)
    37 %
    I don't know.... : (11 votes)
    7 %
    I love Johnny Depp! : (19 votes)
    13 %
    Other (please comment below) : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    73 posts
    Worker bee

    I could never. My BF is so incredibly special to me and he’s my absolute best friend and has been for YEARS. Once we started dating my male friendships fizzled out because they didn’t even come close to him. I know personally it’s possible to love two at once. My parents divorced with I was four, and mom got remarried right after. My dad was her best friend since they wre kids, and she continued to love him even after she remarried my stepdad. Nothing wrong with it all.. it’s not like there was an affair or anything, just pure, platonic love and a romantic love with someone else.

    Now the girls who love two people at once romantically? They need to get over themselves and stop being selfish. One of the three is getting strung along and it’s not emotionally/psychologically fair to anyone.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1111 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I firmly believe you can love many, many people.  But you can only ever be IN love with one person at a time.  I learned this when I met my SO.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1087 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I can’t see the image, but based on the question, this is my feeling:

    I totally believe that there are too many people in the world to have one “soul mate, life partner…true love” whatever you want to call it.

    I have been in love twice in my lifetime. I still love my first boyfriend and I always will have a special place for him in my heart. That doesn’t mean I’d ever act on it.

    I have chosen to dedicate my life and my current and future love to my husband and I will honor my vows to him.

     

    Post # 7
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    3077 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    @Happy Hopeful Bee:  I can’t see the image either…it says “please go to funnyjunk to view this image”. don’t know why lol

    Post # 9
    Member
    11379 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    i agree with johnny depp.

    Post # 15
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    4540 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

    I don’t really think you can be actually in love with two people at the same time, but I definitely think you can be in like with two people (as in, have feelings for them). In which case, I agree with Johnny Depp. 

    Post # 16
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    441 posts
    Helper bee

    I think some people can be in love with multiple people at the same time. Other people don’t work that way. Yes it’s more common to fall out of love with a current partner when you fall in love with someone else, but that doesn’t mean it’s always the case.

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