(Closed) In memory of my friend

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

Thank you for your post, I am sure we all lost someone dear to us, let’s cherish the memories of our dear lost ones.

Mine are:

my brother, my step-father, my grandmothers and grandfathers, my bio-dad, my uncles, my aunts, my pets

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Awww, I think this is a great idea!!  

And while I know how you feel, you really shouldn’t beat yourself up. Most people who end their lives, made up their minds long ago, and not much would deter them from taking their lives, sadly. I know you feel like you could have done more, but honestly, it probably wouldn’t have changed much. Just use it as a lesson, and be thankful that you now (hopefully) woudl be able to see the signs early enough that you could possibly help someone else in the future before their minds have been made up

((HUGS))  I am sorry about your loss 🙁

Post # 7
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Legallyblondiebride:  I think we all feel that way when we have someone in our life that we were close with who committed suicide. Especially when you didn’t see it coming. So many unanswered questions, and you just feel like there was something more you could have done

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

((HUGS)) I’m so sorry you’re sad.  My grandfather committed suicide and so did a friend in high school.  It’s one of the hardest things to comprehend.  The fallout is always so much guilt.  I know it’s cliche, but there really isn’t a lot anyone can do to stop a suicide if they have their mind made up.  Obviously if we had known in advance we would have done everything in our power to help.  Some things are just beyond understanding. 

I hope you have a wonderful weekend in spite of feeling sad right now.

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