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    Birdie Love    May 7, 2011   CA

    I am so thankful to have so many bees to help me with the plethora of questions I seen to have these days!

    Anywhoooo....I need a strapless bra for dress shopping. In hustle and bustle of daily life, I completely forgot about getting a bra. Dress shopping begins this Saturday.

    I haven't worn a strapless bra in awhile. Does anyone have suggestions on where I can buy a strapless 36DDD bra? Buying something online isn't an option at this point just because of the time issue and I don't want to pay for overnight shipping.

    Thanks so much!!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    You could try Macys. I have a terrible time finding my size and they had quite a selection when I went. I didn't try any of the strapless ones though. I suggest going to their site and using the find in store option.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    I was going to recommend Bravissimo but if you don't have time to order it online that won't help much.  But they may be a great option for a strapless bra for the wedding day if the one you find isn't totally comfortable.

    I've heard good things about Nordstrom's selection of larger sports bras.  Maybe they have good strapless bras too?

     
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    Purmission Lingerie

    18 W Calle Laureles, Santa Barbara, Ca 93105

    805.898.1241

    get a fitting- it will make a world of difference

     
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    Cant_wait    December 2010  

    If you are near a Nordstrom's, that's the place to go. The more experiencecd sales women are especially knowledgeable and helpful. They have the best selection of brands for the over-D cup sizes. You proabably want a "longline" style that I read about in these threads.

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    I just saw some at Kohls if you have one close to there.  JcPenny carried them as does Dillards and Yonkers.

     
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    Georgia Bee    October 9, 2010   Atlanta

    Unless you need a regular strapless for sundresses, etc., don't invest in an expensive one until you buy your dress.  You may need something completely different.  With your bust size, you will probably need to go longline for support issues.  If you do buy a longline, I got mine at David's Bridal, but it's Dominique which is also sold on-line at several websites.  They have a very good range of sizes (I'm a 32DD).  I liked that one because it is longer--some of the longlines hit right about the belly button and push all your pudge down into an unattractive bulge below.  Even if you don't really have pudge...

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    specialty bra store. i went to a place called Ann's in st louis--they sell online, by the way!

     
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    JennyW1    February 19, 2011  

    @Birdie Love: I would recommend that you get fitted if you haven't bought a bra or strapless bra in a long time--DEFINITELY get fitted once you buy your dress.

    You can go one of two ways: cheap (which is fine, especially if you don't know your size and if all you want is something just for trying on) in which case any department store is fine or expensive (which I think is the better way to go because everyone could use a good strapless anyway--BUT if you're going to invest, you should get fitted for your proper size). In the latter category, would recommend a specialty bra store (as a PP suggested)--you will pay more and they're not as convenient in terms of shipping etc., but they are more likely to have a variety of sizes. Online purveyors that have a variety of sizes include Fig Leaves, Linda's Online, and La Petite Coquette. I recommend Linda's for the more "utilitarian" as opposed to "frilly" lingerie needs.

    One tip a fitter once gave me is that if you are blessed with more on top, go down a band size and up a cup size for strapless bras--for you, that might mean a 34F/34FF or G. It's very close to your usual size, but you need the band to be tighter to give you more support from below.

     
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    Knubbsy-Wubbsy    July 30, 2011   Central Texas

    I second the recommendations for a longline and for a fitting. While Bravissimo has some great choices, it's a pain to ship back and forth from the UK if it doesn't fit.

    If you don't have time to go to a speciality store before your first dress trip I would wear a well fitted bra with straps. Personally, I would be more distracted by sagging from an ill-fitting strapless (since some stores lend you one to try) then from straps,

     
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    hisbunny    March 13, 2010   ND

    I would say Nordstroms...  My favorite place to go bra shopping... and I am a 34DDD.

     
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    judithsr    October 16, 2011   Hastings, NY/Wedding Bear Mountain, NY

    I've heard Nordstroms is a great place to go...I also really like Fredericks of Hollywood.  I tend to shop there frequently (considering many other places, including Victoria Secret don't have my size.)

    They'll do measurements for you, and have a lot of good sizes.  And whenever I go to the stores, the sales people are always pretty helpful. 

    I know that strapless don't always work well for the bigger gals, (well, speaking from personal experience) though it seems like many wedding dresses have a lot of internal support (I was surprised how supported I was when trying them on).  So, maybe getting an OKAY enough bra will work the day of.

    Good luck though!  And definitely get measured and make sure you feel comfortable! :-)

     
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    missbrache    October 9, 2010   Miami Beach

    Here's 10 36DDD Strapless bras:

    http://www.figleaves.com/us/nsf/qwiseranswered.asp?dept=&searchhandle=A%3dwomenswear+not+in+olet~B%3dwomenswear+not+in+olet~D%3d12~E%3d0^0^2^LifeTime~G%3d11191^2^11161^2~K%3d4~L%3d1~M%3d2~N%3d6~&originalquery=Womenswear%20not%20in%20olet&answerhandle=14218&oqmc=&answerhandlecrumb=&colouranswerselected=&sortorderrequested=&cm_re=lhn-_-Size-_-cta30_36DDD/E&pagesize=&removetextsearch=&answer=1%201%2014218%201&hd=true&productid=&productcolour=

     

    Here are 8:

     

    http://www.freshpair.com/womens/bras/strapless-bras/size-36DDD.html

    Freshpair has great customer service.

     

     
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    missbrache    October 9, 2010   Miami Beach

    Here's the first link again: http://tinyurl.com/25hqy29

    IT got cut off.

     
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    ejoyb    October 10, 2010  

    Great thread, had no idea Nordstroms sold larger bras. I'm so going there today. :)

     
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    ejoyb    October 10, 2010  

    Ended up going to Nordstrom today. They measured me and turns out I'm a 38H instead of the 42DDD i thought I was. That said, they definitely don't carry longline bras in my size so I have to continue my hunt. :-/

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    @ejoyb: nordstroms will order bras in your size by the way - im a 32GG - i either get them from Nordstroms (they carry Panache, Fantasie and Freya - all lines that go up in the alphabet for the girls)

    or you can order online from figleaves.com or herroom.com

    keep in mind your bridal longline bra will not be the same size as your regular bra since it should fit according to your waistline.

    I ended up getting two corsets/longline bras:

    this one: http://www.herroom.com/Panache-4547-Harlequin-Hestia-Basque-Bra.shtml

    which was gorgeous and i still own, but the back was not able to be altered for my low back dress

    then got this one: http://www.herroom.com/Va-Bien-513-Full-Figure-Long-Line-Bustier-Bra.shtml

    which was able to be altered in the back to follow the lines of my dress.

    the panache one was true to my bra size (32GG) because it was a corset. but the longline from va bien was a 36DDD - because its less of a corset (has bra hooks in back for closures) and had to be fit for the small of my back not right under my boobies...

    looked great and worked like a charm - no pulling up at all of the bra!

     
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    ejoyb    October 10, 2010  

    @spaganya: No pulling up is what I'm looking for. I will try the Va Bien and hopefully that will be the end of my bra search. Thanks!

     

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