- 6 years ago
I have been married for 2 years. My Maid of Honor, best friend of 26 years and my brother-in-law, the best man, just atarted dating. This may sound like a wonderful situation but it is not. First off my BIL and husband have not gotten along for many years now, our relationship with him is rockey to say the least. He is older and was jealous of his brother getting married before him and was just angry at the wedding. My best friend has gone through a couple bad relationships and recently moved home and is looking to settle down, in one of our many talks she mentions that she thinks it is more important is a man can provide a comfortable life style above anything else. And days later starts aggressively persuing my BIL, who does have a lot of money. They are together morining noon and night and I want to be ahppy for both of them, but now I never see her cause my husband does not like being around his brother and I am skeptical if she is in it for the right reasons. It also hurt my husbad because she was his good friend too, and she knows all of the hurtful things his brother had done to him. Should I just tell her how I am feeling, or not. I don’t want to hurt our relationship, or hers with my BIL if it is true love (they have only been dating for a month and she is talking about marriage and babies ect…) I don’t think she will let him go for any reason after she has seen what he can give to her , sad but my gut tells me thats the truth!!