(Closed) In need of good advice…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

In this situation, I’d invite her over for a whole weekend sleepover, ordering good take out food, drinking nice wine, renting tons of funny movies and doing girl stuff.

That way, she can have a good time, but by not being in public, she can cry if she wants to, talk to you about it if she needs to, but if she doesn’t, you have plenty of stuff to do.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

You’re a good friend! I’d keep her busy and active. Go shopping, to yoga or other workout. Picnic in the park. Then all the girl stuff in the evening.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I agree with a fun weekend. If you have a foot spa…let her soak her feet and do your own mani and pedis. You’re a good friend!!

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Aw, that is a crappy way to spend a birthday.  What a nice friend you are.  She’ll appreciate anything you do, just for being there to support her.  I think you guys should have a girls day.  Maybe do brunch or lunch, then mani/pedis like others have suggested.  Also, maybe check out the book store, see if there are any good books, if she’s a reader. 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Thats awful – your poor friend!  I think time is more important than money here, so agree with the girls weekend!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

You’re already giving her what she needs most-a support friend willing to keep her company and comfort her. Take her for a massage, or if that’s out of the budget, go buy stuff for facials/masks, foot scrubs/pedis, etc.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

Girls weekend sounds great, maybe go out for dinner on her birthday and celebrate her!

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