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    fizicsGirl    8/1/2009   Michigan

    Thanks hive for all the warm thoughts when I posted about my uncle's surgery:

    http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/need-a-huge-hive-hug

    Sadly, things did not go well.

    I'm not sure what I feel right now...I alternate between sad, and angry, and also just having to remind myself that I will really never see him or talk to him again.  My father is pretty devastated and sounding nonsensical.  It's just hard...

     
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    Firefighter_Prazs_Girl    02/3/2010 and 05/03/2010   Angleton Texas

    I am so sorry! Hang in there and I am praying for you and your family!

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Hugs and prayers for you and your family

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    ((hugs))

     
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    Tanya123      

    So sorry.  Prayers for you and your family.

     
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    srismi    June 20, 2009   Washington, DC

    I am so sorry.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

     
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    mrsbear    7/22/07   New York

    so sorry for your loss. you are lucky to have a close-knit family; you will get through this together.

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    I'm so sorry.  Is your family going back to India to pay respects?  That might help your dad to put some closure and to mourn.  I'm sure you'll find a lovely way to honor your uncle at your wedding.  Wishing you peace in your heart.

     
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    fizicsGirl    8/1/2009   Michigan

    Thanks everyone for your thoughts.

    My parents were in india for the surgery.  They had the cremation today.  

    My grandparents are not doing very well at all...I usually try take the perspective that there's something for the rest of us to learn when stuff happens.  And though it wasn't so acute, he has been in poor health for many years so maybe he has found some peace and comfort.  But what really did my 92 year old grandfather have to learn from losing his youngest child?

     

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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    I am SO very sorry for your loss...big HUGS!

     
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    KateMW    8.30.03   Birmingham

    I'm so sorry to hear this. Hug for you and for your father and grandparents. I know it's hard. 

     
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    Miss Burgundy    May 28, 2010   Southern California

    I'm so sorry to hear about this fizicsGirl *hugs* My thoughts are with you and your family...it's very sad when this sort of thing happens :(

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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    Praying for you and your family during this difficult time.

     
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    Lorienne    January 1, 2016   Los Angeles, CA

    I am so, so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family during this painful time. 

     

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