(Closed) Inappropriate Grandmother Behavior

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

that is rude, but it’s time to move on and get over it. remember what matters:

JAR, SUCCESS.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

She sounds like a douchebag.

Post # 6
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429 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

How rude! I cant believe she would act like that, some people..sheesh. Im glad the jar was a success and by the sounds of your relationship with her and your grandpa it doesnt sound like you’ll have to deal with them very often which is great! I wouldnt let it ruin the memories of your special day, dont give her that satisfaction, just remember the positives even though Im sure you wanted to smack her haha

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

There’s some stuff from my wedding that was just awful and getting past it is difficult. Mine was 2 months before yours and I can say that those kinds of things do fade with time if you don’t feed them. It’s good to vent here and let it out, but try not to waste too much of your energy being hurt and bitter over it.

Anyway, I’m glad your jar was a success! Such a beautiful thing to do.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Aside from the fact that it was really rude behavior considering such a loving gesture on your part.. the title of your post had me laughing before I even opened the thread! I was picturing that TV show Betty White has about old people playing pranks..

Anyways, I’m sorry she didn’t get the gesture, but the important part is that you paid tribute to a friend. Very touching.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend.  That was so thoughtful of you to collect donations for her cause.  Sounds like it was a success and I hope you can remember honoring her at your wedding.

As for your step-grandmother – some people… it’ll be a funny story after a few years, just try to forget about it now. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Ignore the poor behavior, the good news is that the jar was a success and that is what really matters.  If it is still eating at you, talk to her about it.

Post # 11
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853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@anghp:  at her funeral, you should clink glasses the entire time.

Okay okay, maybe not. that was a little spiteful on my part. I understand that you feel distaste towards your stepgrandmother. (fyi, I HATE mine with every fiber of my being.) I am glad that your jar was a success, and I am so sorry that your friend died. But I am sure that she was looking down on you smiling during your entire wedding. I am sorry that your SGM had to ruin her moment. Some people just don’t understand how to respect others.

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