- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
I understand the tradition, but the problem is, I have two moms- my biological mom and my stepmom that I am very close to. I was considering having them each light a single candle and during the unity candle part of the ceremony, just using both of them, if that makes sense. Problem is, I’m worried about one candle, let alone two, I’m somewhat of a klutz.
Does anyone have any other suggestions to make the unity candle ceremony less, awkward I guess, without having my mom and stepmom “share” so to speak. I want each of them to feel involved. I’m also considering a footwashing ceremony in order to elminate this issue…..