- almost mrs
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
I know everyone thinks it but I really do have the inlaws from hell,
not just my FI’s parents but his siblings too, his sister has always competed with me ever since I met him, He asked me out she got a fella, he moved in with me she moved in with her fella (she was a lesbien when I met my FI) we got engaged she got engaged I fell pregnant and three months later guess what… we set a date and booked a venue she went and booked our venue for a year earlier so we had to change it. I wasn’t invited to the hen do and only got a wedding invite 2 weeks before (everyone else got theres 4 months before) when we went we were the only ones not seated with family, there were only 2 other people on our table that we didnt know, all of the family were in the wedding but not us.
His dad didnt meet our daughter until she was 4 moths old and when he did it was for 5 minutes he has seen her 4 times since less then 30 minutes each time sometimes just passing in the street she is 2, His mother is worse she worshipps his ex despite his ex doing awful things. All of his family missed our daughters birthday, not even a phone call,
we have never done anything to provoke this attitude I actively went out of my way to be nice to them booked holidays, bought tickets to there favourite things etc. now I am worried that they are going to come to my wedding and make me feel like crap. But if i dont invite them as my Fiance suggests they will blame me and make me look like the bad guy advice please