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Inner Envelope - Do you write " & Guest"

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
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    spraguebride    August 8, 2009   Bothell, WA

    When you do the inner envelope do you write just "Suzy" or "Suzy & guest"?

    Some people, I do not know who they will bring so I need to just have the "plus 1" listed as a"guest". Do I write this on the inner envelopes or not?

     
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    travelchick    July 2009   New York

    Yes, the inner envelope is used to tell who is invited.  If you only put "Suzy" on the envelope, then traditionally, only she is invited.

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    heather25       New York

    Write it on the inner and leave the outer addressed solely to the recipient of the physical invite (aka your friend).

     
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    spraguebride    August 8, 2009   Bothell, WA

    OK..thanks! :-)

     
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    Niki    05/31/2008  

    If possible, it is prefered that you put the name of the guest on the invite.  Obviously, if you don't know who she might take, "& Guest" is acceptable.

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