- 3 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
So I posted yesterday about my hopes for a proposal this holiday season. Well I was talking to my mom today and she told me that she has asked my grandfather for my grandmothers ring for me! Now she won’t tell me what he said and she won’t tell me if or when she gets it cause she wants it to be a surprise. I’ve wanted this ring since I was very young, it would mean the world to me to wear the ring that my grandmother wore for the entirety of her wonderful marriage. My question is, should I tell my SO? It would mean so much to me to have it (though of course I’ll be extatic no matter what) but like I said I’m hoping it’s already in the works and I’m worried if I tell him and he’s already picked one I’ll hurt his feelings or even risk pushing back his proposal! Do I say something? Or just let whatever happens happen? I’d be happy no matter what, I just want to marry my man!