(Closed) Interesting Story! The family I will belong to…(Long)

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

Maybe not competing, but maybe his brother’s engagement helped him to realize how badly he wants to be married to his GF? 

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Not sure why it matters if he is competing or not or if he planned it or not.  Who cares when he proposes or what motivated him or what type of ring he bought? You say you don’t but you made 2 posts about it just today so it must bother you on some level. I don’t see how it’s even amusing – you guys should just be happy for his brother and gf that they are happy.  There’s no one way to come around to proposing.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

I just posted in the other one! Do you have a pic of your ring?  I’d love to see it. 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

@watergirl4455:  exactly! When DH and I met, his brother was just getting married and I think it just showed him how ready he was for marriage. Little did he know that he had just met his wife to be! I think it makes it less scary/intimidating if a family member just did it if they have any fears about that kind of stuff. Same with pregnancy, buying a house, wedding, etc. it either makes them run and hide and get even further from the idea or it makes them realize, hey! It wasn’t that scary for him! I can do this!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper

@watergirl4455:  oh and I completely understand just wanting to talk a nagging thought in your mind. It may not make you mad/sad/angry but just a nagging, wondering question! 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@watergirl4455:  I find it funny. It was def. not planned. But with you talking about your ring I can’t help but want to see it!!! Show pics! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@watergirl4455:  pretty. what is the cluster ring with the twisted band you posted then if this is your e-ring?

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@watergirl4455:  gotcha! It’s really pretty too – they will look great together. Are the middle stones diamond or something else? They looked colored in the one picture I saw but I couldn’t see the pic on my phone clearly enough to tell.

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@watergirl4455: So pretty! Your e-ring reminds me of my wedding band, and I have a halo e-ring, so we’re flip flopped! ๐Ÿ™‚

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