(Closed) Interesting Wedding Day Question For You

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’d actually love it!  But I can see both sides.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I wouldn’t care at all!

I don’t celebrate my anniversary with anyone except my husband and so I really don’t care what anyone else does on that day!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I dont think I would like it at all!

Post # 6
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Busy bee

Now you guys can go on fun vacays together! 

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Um, I wouldn’t love it but I’d deal. Although I think its really nice to do an older generation’s anniversary (so long as you ask). My cousin asked my grandma if she would mind if she got married on her anniversary and i think that is cute. Like good luck or something because my grandparents had such a happy marriage. I would totally consider getting married on my parents’ anniversary if it wasn’t smack dab in the middle of the summer (I hate heat!) 🙂

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I wouldn’t like it. We’ve picked our date and are so excited for it, it would be really annoying to have that replayed for a sibling. Slightly bratty, maybe but that’s my honest feeling.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Out of all the days in the year, my FSIL who got enaged after we did is getting married on my 1 year anniversary. We don’t get along and don’t speak and she has tortured me during this whole wedding process so it’s certainly not something that can be discussed. Part of me is pretty pissed and then another part could care less. FI wants to plan a trip for our 1 years anniversary and then say oops we are going to be away that day.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

It would bug me, sure. But I know that my sister won’t do it out of love and respect for me and FH. Besides, she’d want her own special day without any previous immediate family attachment to it! But if she did? Meh, I’d cope. Hundreds of other people in the world will get married on the same day as me and in the end another one doesn’t matter. It’d only feel different because we’re related.

Post # 12
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I wouldn’t be really happy about it but would ultimately realize its not a big deal.  But like you said – I wouldn’t really want to share my anniversary with a sibling.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think it would be neat.  After the actual wedding day no one other than the couple really pays attention to anniversaries.  

I think it’s a neat kind of new family tradition.  My mother and father were married on Christmas day and my grandparents on New Years day.  I considered getting married on a holiday to keep the tradition alive but I think it would be too stressful!

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Now this really got me thinking LOL. I don’t care about the date, but I’m a little annoyed that this is how I will have to spend my first anniversary. I wonder if she did it on purpose.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

my mom tried to get my and my huband to get married on their 25th!!

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I would not like that at all! It’s one thing to maybe get married on your parents or grandparents anniversary but to have your sibling get married on your one year anniversary is just weird. I hope my little sister picks her own special day to celebrate such a major event in her life!

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