Internet guy

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
Member
579 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Ap2010:  Ignore him. DO NOT respond to him. Block his emails and phone numbers. You have no reason to be friends with this guy.

Even if he had feelings for you, this is not the type of guy you want to be dating. Hell not the type of guy you want to be friends with.

Post # 4
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579 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Ap2010:  The thing with suicide is it is on the person who commits it. You cannot be blamed for his choices. Certainly, you cannot be held responsible legally. If you are worried, contact the police in his city and have them check on him (no need to give your name). But if he chooses suicide, that is his choice.

If you really want to keep the emails do so but seriously do not respond to this guy. Block his email address as well.

Post # 5
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829 posts
Busy bee

If you went to therapy to gain your self respect back, why would you go back to a guy who exploited you? He’s toxic! A man who respects you will not bribe or blackmail you into sending inappropriate photos. You need to find a new therapist and stop this cycle, start truly loving yourself and understand you deserve better treatment from men.

Post # 6
Member
2638 posts
Sugar bee

Hasn’t the request for inappropriate photos put you off?…permanently?

Post # 8
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579 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Ap2010:  Block him on all forms of communication you have. That is all you can do. Unfortunately, when we make poor decisions regarding online contacts (been there and done it), it can be very hard to get away from that. He will leave you alone when he can’t contact you anymore.

Post # 9
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1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I agree with the previous posters. Block him on all forms of communication and just cut all ties. Don’t feel sorry for him, because chances are you’re not the only woman he’s trying to manipulate.

Post # 10
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904 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

Ap2010:  1) Block him on all of forms communication. Do not give him the ability to conversate with you. It’s not healthy for you, or for him.

2) If you feel that he cannot keep those boundaries and/or you’re ever afraid for your life, file a restraining order. That will allow him NO contact with you whatsoever. He will then be held accountable legally should he try and defy/break that restraining order.

3) It is HIS choice to commit suicide should he so choose to go through with the act. You are not responsible for his thoughts and actions. It seems as though he trying to place blame onto you. Most likely as a manipulation to get you back into his life. Which he seems to do very well with if he was able to get out of a mental facility by faking his recovery.

I hope you can be strong and couragous during this time. Please be safe.

Post # 11
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2364 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Ap2010:  Can you just NOT talk to him?  That is like the epitome of creepy.  Please tell me he doesn’t know where you live.  Please.    

Post # 12
Member
3704 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Ap2010:  I agree with PPs. If he doesn’t have your new number, keep it that way, he shouldn’t be able to find it out. If he is just contacting you via email, either change your email or block him. Depending on what email you have, if you want to keep the emails in case he does something, there are ways to have any emails from him automatically archived in a specific folder that you don’t need to look at unless something happens. I know you can do this with gmail at least. If he were to commit suicide, it would not be your fault, not personally and certainly not legally. That is on him. If he has that tendancy, he would have that tendancy whether he met you or not. If you are legitimately worried about him, your could call the police to check on him if you know his address. But if I were you, I would leave well enough alone and forget about him. 

Post # 13
Member
3560 posts
Sugar bee

Ap2010:  Delete the email and ignore it.  I know you may feel bad becuase he is in still in a bad position, but he is bringing you down with his negativity.  I had a friend like that before and she was such a negative person.  Despite being very close (at one time she was like a sister) i realized in the end that it was better for me to not be her friend and my life is for the better without her.

Post # 14
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3938 posts
Honey bee

CUT TIES WITH THIS CREEP!

Post # 15
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209 posts
Helper bee

You can not be held responsible for his suicide. he sounds like a threat to himself anf even to you.

peope you have demons/troubles  and commit suicide don’t usually threaten ot talk about it. It’s the ultimate low. I seriously doubt he is truly considering it and if he is? It had noting to do with your actions. He’s pushed you away, youve seeked help and moved on and e should do the same. 

cut contact with this guy and forget he exsisted x

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