Interview on birthday

posted 3 years ago in Career
  • poll: Interview or not?
    Yes : (36 votes)
    58 %
    No : (1 votes)
    2 %
    Screw the birthday : (24 votes)
    39 %
    Who works anyway? : (1 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    Hostess
    15072 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I would think any parent, even an in law, would want you to interview over a birthday celebration. Jobs pay the bills, birthdays don’t.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1057 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think it’s completely unreasonable and selfish for you SO to be upset with you. This isn’t about him. This isn’t about his father. This is about you making a decision that could really impact your career. End of discussion. I hope you get the job! 🙂

    Post # 5
    Member
    10219 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Lol, unless it is a MAJOR Milestone with a “Family Celebration” for his Dad’s 50th etc. I’d be leaning on continuing your Job Hunt (his Dad will understand)

    BUT if it is his Dad’s 80th, 85th, 95th, 100th, or 100+ Birthday Celebration

    Then I migh reconsider.

    As those suckers only come once… and the next one is never for certain.

    Better to Celebrate LIFE for the Living NOW than have the next Family Get-together be for a Funeral.

    Hope this helps,

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    62 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Agreed with everyone!  You owe it to yourself to do whatever you need to do to advance your career, and it sounds like it is really important to you.

    Post # 9
    Member
    896 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2009

    @veryberry13:  That’s absurd.      I can’t imagine anyone would put a bday celebration above a job interview.

    Post # 10
    Member
    181 posts
    Blushing bee

    It does not matter whose birthday it is, the job interview should come first. Why would your husband be upset? Jobs pay the bills, and a career changing interview is even more important. Screw the birthday and do what you need to do. 

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