intimacy board prudes

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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441 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@otto2008:  It’s probably because you had 2 sexually explicit threads within a few minutes of each other

Post # 4
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1248 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@otto2008:  Maybe because the last 3 threads you started (in the space of 30 minutes) were about erections, creaking beds from doing the deed and wet dreams – it may give some people pause about why you are really here…

Post # 5
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3693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yes, this is going to go over well.

Post # 9
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441 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@otto2008:  I wasn’t being snarky I was trying to explain why it happened. A board that is predominately women is going to attract sleazy men so if you post sex related things so close together then your likely to have those assumptions made about you.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

[moderated for snark, personal attack]

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia

I wasn’t going to post anything; I kinda giggled when I saw the thread title on the main boards page.

I think.. the problem is that it could come off as sexual harrassment when a stranger/random guy asks female Bees about how their private intimate lives are. Also, most Bees are females; not prudes. 

Because.. everything is permanent on the interweb. Nobody is going to air their bedroom secrets out in the open.

ETA: It is also not nice to tease a man in public just for a laugh. I agree with TTR that it is rather mean.

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Hi @otto2008:  Looks like I missed the fur-fest.

I get what you are saying… it would indeed appear to be unfair.

BUT ya there are posters here who are “suspicious” of men on these Boards (unless they are aksing about ERings)

And posting more than one sexually related Question in a short period of time, would definitely raise the RED FLAGS so to speak.

As I feel you are a Poster with a bit of a history now on WBee 169 Posts is not shabby… (I’ve replied to several of your posts in the past), let me see if I can help you out:

Question # 1

IF your GF / SO / Fiancé / Wife does this to you in public purely for her entertainment she is being BOTH immature & mean IMO.  Humiliating one’s guy on purpose is both juevenile and cruel.  I am afraid that if Mr TTR did something like that to me, or me to him, our relationship would be on exceedingly rocky ground… a lot of TRUST WOULD BE GONE.

Question # 2

Wet Dreams… totally possible / normal.  They happen because a man has a sexually detailed dream… doesn’t matter if he is 12 or 92… if it is hot enough, then there could certainly be some “lubrication” involved.

Question # 3

I answered your Squeeky bed post personally.  You have options… what you choose to do is up to you.

Hope this helps,

 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

However, when out of your 174 posts in the last three weeks (so far) you’ve started 55 separate threads, you might want to slow your roll a little bit. I think people get a little freaked out when they see someone new join and completely blow up the boards (especially in your case where you’re somewhat of an ‘non-traditional’ poster). That goes double when some of the threads are fairly inflammatory or out-there, it makes people think of the ‘t’ word that we’re not allowed to say here.

ETA: I’m not the queen of Weddingbee, I’m not going to tell you how or what to post, I’m just pointing out a common forum culture issue — take it for what you will.

ETA-again: make that 56 threads.

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