Intimate question. Hair "down there"

posted 5 months ago in Wellness
Post # 2
4043 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Trim. I don’t like to be bare, but I do like to be neat!

Post # 3
2115 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter's Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

I don’t like having it all off as it makes me feel ten years old and I hate that.  Short and neat is the way for me.

Post # 4
90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Trimmed or shaved around my labia and on top can be anywhere from trimmed to full bush for me. I hate it when my pubes are too long but I hate not having any hair as it makes me uncomfortable to think my vulva looks like a child’s when I’m an adult. I also only trim my armpit hair rather than shave for the same reason. 

Post # 5
1113 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

garnobella :  I also like to have mine all bare….I actually just got a brazillian for the first time a few weeks ago and I love it – have my appt set up for the next one already. As for the moist feeling, I’m certain that will never go away with skin folds and being warm down there….so I’m not sure what to tell ya on that one. 

Post # 6
2676 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Hogarths, Solihull

FI prefers mine smooth so I will shave occassionally, but I quite like it bushy but tidy haha

That might just be because I’m quite lazy though. I also hate how itchy and bumpy it is when I’ve shaved.

Legs and underarms have to be smooth for me though!

Post # 7
560 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Brazilian wax all the way. I’m on the pill so no issues with wetness at all. Have you tried panty liners?

Post # 8
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

FI likes it bare so I wax it all off. If I didn’t indulge him, though, I’d just keep it trimmed and tidy. 

Post # 9
1044 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I use a bikini line hair remover product to keep the edges neat and trim the rest. I shaved it once and that was a nightmare when it started growing back in and I am way too scared to wax. I waxed my armpits once and thought I was going to cry so it was a hard pass on waxing the lady bits.

Post # 10
505 posts
Busy bee

Off off off!

Used to go natural but have changed my mind and I’m So glad. 

And there’s no way my lady junk looks the same as a little girls!

Post # 11
7498 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I hate having any hair there, so I shave it all off. It’s my personal preference, although I’m sure DH agrees.

Post # 12
258 posts
Helper bee

Brazilian waxing or laser are the way to go! 


Try wearing panty liners for the wetness feeling. 

Post # 13
335 posts
Helper bee

I shave it all off. I also grow hair on the inside of my labia for some reason, so I use one of those little facial hair trimmers to get those (they drive me crazy!). If I let my hair get too long it just gets itchy and drives me insane! I hate the way it feels bunched up in my panties, and if I let it go too long from laziness it is literally ALL I think about until I can shave it off- it drives me nuts.

FH doesn’t care at all- hah. I think he’s just happy he gets it 😛

Post # 14
70 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Those who trim, how do you go about it? Doesn’t it get all poke-y and weird? I’ve trimmed a few times before and it was prickly and very uncomfortable so I either have to leave it alone or take it all off. I’d rather trim. Anybody got any tips?

Post # 15
1016 posts
Bumble bee

I HATE shaving/epilating/waxing/etc my pubic hair.  I hate the way it feels when it has been removed (my inner labia are just a bit longer than my outer labia, so without the hair to help provide a barrier, they can get caught against my panties and pantiliners and tugged – which hurts) and I hate the way it feels when it starts to grow back in (itchy, itchy, itchy)!  My partner prefers it removed, I prefer full bush.  I sometimes compromise and trim it up a bit, since I know he likes it, but I never remove it fully.  Tried it a few times, and it was agony.

I fully epilate my legs, though.  SO much better than shaving.

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