- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
Damn, I forgot to categorize this in the right category. Could a mod move it to an appropriate location?
I was on here for about 1.5 years before and after my wedding, but now I am under a new name.
My DH and I werent sure if we wanted kids and were thinking we didnt. Then recently we realized we just didnt want a kid where we currently live (across country from our family) and we couldnt imagine us without a kid in the future.
So we decided that we would start sometime in the next year depending on when we plan to move (DH’s job would move us).
So now, for the first time ever, I am thinking about kids etc. I am a little worried that it might take us a long time to TTC. I am 30 and he is 33 and I have never had a “scare”. Part of me wants to TTC early, but being 8 months pregnant when we move across country is not acceptable to me.
I know everyone is different, but how long have you been TTC or how long did it take you to get pregnent when you were trying (not counting surprises)