(Closed) invitation package weirdness — it can’t be just me!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think that the Thank You cards are for later, but that you would order them with the invitations so they are the same design for the stationary. I do not know what informal is…

Post # 4
2703 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

the thank you cards are for after the wedding, you can get them separate, but they include it in your invite sets to match! 🙂

i’m not sure what the ‘informal’ is referring to! 🙂

Post # 5
2030 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

You’re not supposed to send thank you notes with the invitation…they are for after the wedding, they just match the rest of the paper suite.

The informal card is for any extra info you may need to include, such as directions.

Post # 7
2066 posts
Buzzing bee

Lots of brides get very obsessed with being matchy-matchy.  Some invitations also have coordinating menus and place cards.  

Post # 8
1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Actually the informal is to show guests how your name is to appear post wedding. Basically in black ink you print Mrs. First Last if you’re changing your name. First Last if you’re not changing it because technically you’re only allowed to use Mrs. if you are taking your husbands last name. I had no idea what they were until about a month ago either. And the PP’s are correct, the thank you notes are for after the wedding.

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