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    TingTing    September 12, 2010   Los Angeles

    We are having an adult only ceremony and reception.

    I can add "Adult only" to "Reception to follow",

    but how do i indicate that the ceremony is also only for adults?

    TIA!!

    Please see below for my current wording:

     

    Together with our parents, we

    My name

    and

    His name

    invite you to share with us of our union


    Sunday, the twelfth of September

    two thousand ten

    at time o’clock in the afternoon

    Chapel

    location, California


    Reception to follow  

    at time

    in the afternoon

    hotel

    location, California


     

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    You can just indicate on the envelope the names of people invited (obviously no children would be listed there) and on your RSVP card put something to the effect of "___ seats have been reserved in your honor" or something like that to help prevent people from adding their children to the invite.

    And if someone still does, you just have to call them and let them know that, unfortuantely, you are unable to include their child(ren) in the event but hope that they will still be able to celebrate with you.

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    Honestly, you shouldn't put "adults only" anywhere on the invitation.  It's not proper etiquette.  The way you indicate that the event is adults only is that you only put the name of the people invited (adults) on the invitation.  If people try to add their children to the RSVP card then you call them and politely let them know that you can not accomodate their children.

    Also.. your line "invite you to share with us of our union" doesn't make sense.  Maybe change it to just "invite you to witness our union"

     

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