Invite Fiancé's Friend and wife or not?

posted 5 days ago in Guests
Post # 46
Member
428 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Absolutely not…do you seriously want to look over at some point in your wedding at the crowd and see the person your fiance you just said vows too used to have sex with.. behind your back.. while dating you.

No.

And why you became friends with her is honestly beyond me

Post # 47
Member
1213 posts
Bumble bee

Hell to the no. This woman is at worst bad news and a threat to your relationship, at the best, completely inappropriate and obtuse. It was big of you to forgive her (and your fiance), but since she couldn’t leave the past where it belongs, you should be upfront with your fiance about why you don’t want her there. Ask him if he really wants this girl to be verbally reminding you about his infidelity on the day you’re supposed to be getting married?

Post # 50
Member
5389 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

I wouldn’t invite them.

Post # 51
Member
1660 posts
Bumble bee

Nope! Sorry, not cool. I think if she had left it all in the past and hadnt made the (SUPER CRAPPY) side comments, I could have looked past it, since you were friends. But as it sits now, I dont see any reason to invite this couple. 

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