- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
My FI and I went to a birthday party of someone on his side of the family and when we went to say hi to one of his second (?) uncles, the 2nd uncle said that he can’t remember my name so he’ll just call me “big boobs”. I was honestly in a state of shock and couldn’t think of what to say in response and said something along the lines of my nickname is X. He kept on going about it, probably thinking he was hilarious. My FI shooed us out of there pretty quick.
After the shock had worn off, I told FI that I did not want to invite that man to our wedding (which is only 50 people) and he agreed with me. FI told his mom about what happened and she got really angry and defensive and commanded that I invite him or that I will be tearing the family apart. She was really angry and defensive and took me completely by surprise.
I don’t like creating waves, and I don’t want FI’s mom to be upset with me but I really don’t want someone who just wants to refer to me as “big boobs” at my wedding. If my family heard that, I am not even sure how they would react, I come from really proud stock and no one has ever spoken to me that way (the way his mom did and uncle “big boobs”.
I already know I am not inviting him, no matter what happens to FI’s family or his mom. Mostly I just wanted to vent. Thanks for reading bees.