- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2008
I havent been on here in a while but have an issue thats really bugging me and need some advice please, please, please! Ok, my very good friend is getting married soon (we’ll call her “B”) and Im in the wedding as a BM. She has become so-so friends with one of my other very good friends over the couse of the last yr or so (we’ll call her “C”). “C” was invited to the bridal shower and is also invited to the wedding. She was not, however, invited to the bachelorette party. She has made comments about wanting to go and being free the day of the party, so I think she assumes she’s going. “B” ‘s cousin (aka best friend) is throwing the bachelorette party and Im not very close to her at all. From what I’m aware “B” gave her cousin the list of invites and her cousin sent them all out and put everything together for this party. “C” was not given an invite. My Q is….what do I do?? I don’t want to make “B” feel on the spot about inviting her but I also don’t want “C” to be mad at me and think I should have said something so she’d get invited. I have 2 other friends that are so-so friends of “B” but are very good friends of mine. They also didnt get invited but they said they understood, as they aren’t super close to “B”. I feel stuck in te middle and don’t feel I should have to be. Do I just let it alone and if it’s brought to my attention by “C” pretend I didnt know anything and tell her to ask “B” about it if she’s upset?? Or do I ask “B” about why she didnt invite “C” as it might be an oversight? Help please!!