Invite question…a couple broke up post save the date…

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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7526 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I would just invite her, and maybe give her a generic +1.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@MsGinkgo:  you can invite just her. She’s your friend, not really him. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@MsGinkgo:  I wouldn’t worry about it. Let them fight it out on their own of who gets to go. I have a feelign they both understand only she will be making it

Post # 7
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10457 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Hmmm I’d probably just send her an invite. Do you think you’ll stay in touch with the boyfriend? 

Post # 8
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7945 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

If you think you will not maintain a relationship with the ex BF apart from your friend, I  think you answered your own question.  I understand your question, but in this case, I would consider the BF a guest of your friend.  

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@MsGinkgo:  Just send an invitation to her and not him. She was your friend first so I doubt he expects an invitation.

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