(Closed) invite to my wedding JUST BECAUSE i was invited to theirs?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

As long as you see the 4 or 5 you want to invite outside of the Christmas potluck (i.e. they are closer friends) then there is no worry.

Just because you were invited to someone’s wedding doesn’t mean you have to invite them to yours.

Post # 4
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I see no reason to invite someone to yours for no other reason than they invited you. 

Though Fiance feels differently about this!  His take is that he gave a nice gift and he wants one back. LOL

Post # 5
7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

This has been a struggle for us but I’ve finally concluded that NO, just because we went to theirs does not mean we have to invite them to ours!  Just invite the people you feel close to, you see more than once a year, and you think would make your day more special. 🙂

Post # 6
1493 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I invited those who invited me to their weddings. Right now, we have one friend engaged who’ve I’ve known for years. We invited him to our wedding a couple of years ago. Part of me isn’t sure that we’ll get the same invite. I’m hoping we do because I’m so happy for him and his fiance.

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