(Closed) Invite to Rehersal Dinner?

posted 10 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

Do you know your officiant well?  If it is "your" regular pastor, I think it’s good to invite them and spouse (if they have one).  They can always decline. 

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2006

I don’t know the official etiquette, but it just seems polite to invite them.  We are inviting everyone that is in the wedding (pastor included) and their spouses.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

my friends didn’t….but they didn’t particularly like him either…..they got stuck with him…long story.  but my FI’s dad is performing our ceremony, so we have to invite him ; )

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

We invited everyone in the wedding party (including a fiancee or spouse) as well as our priest and his wife.  It may just be because I’ve known him since I was 7, but to me it seems that he/she should be invited. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

i’d invite him……he’s marrying you. thats a big deal.

Post # 8
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Newbee

Yes- etiquette-wise the officiant gets invited. Emily Post says you should also invite the officiant’s spouse, but I feel like that might be a little much unless you know the officiant and/or his spouse.  I actually just found this out- I gave my FMIL a list of guests for the RD and she was like, oh you forgot the minister and his wife. and so the RD grows…I swear it is turning into a mini-wedding! it is always good to get on the officiant’s good side though! 

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