- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
First post, here we go.
I was recently confronted with a strange situation. A friend of mine from middle school (we were besties for 6 years during high school), recently had a shot-gun wedding, with around 150 people. She invited one of our friends from home, but didn’t tell the rest of us about it. The thing that is weird is that she knew when she got engaged that she was invited to my wedding (4 months out), invited to another friend from home’s wedding (5 months out), and the flew across the country last summer for another friend from home’s wedding. We’re all part of the same group, and although we don’t talk much anymore, when we see each other its like nothing ever changed. I was hurt and surprised that she didn’t even tell us about the wedding, especially when she let us all know right after she got engaged. She already has the save the date for my wedding, and I still want her to be there, I’m just thinking maybe she doens’t want to be since she didn’t even tell me about hers?
What would you do? Tell her I understand if she doesn’t want to come? We haven’t really spoken since I found out she got married.