- 8 years ago
I just wanted to share and am not sure any one else would understand, except you ladies . . .
I had been having a hard time deciding whether I should invite my “business” associate. I guess that’s the best way to describe her. We do have a couple of mutual friends, but really, I only got to know her because she was looking for some to be her business associate. We coach beginning/intermediate female triathletes and have been doing so for 5 years. (I have a full time job and do the coaching in my spare time.)
I wasn’t going to invite her to my wedding–especially since our target race was supposed to be the weekend of my wedding (which I set before the race date). Turns out the race date has been moved. So, I reluctantly decided I should invite her. Well, apparently, she was thrilled and was feeling left out since she wasn’t going to get to be there. I just got an email from her telling me she got the invite.
Was it wrong to exclude her from the list if I knew she wasn’t going to be able to attend? The reason I was going to exclude her was I didn’t want to make it look as if I was hunting for a gift.