(Closed) Inviting Bridesmaid’s Icky Boyfriend

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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9057 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ugh, why do people bring these things up so far in advance.  They may be “off again” by the time your wedding rolls around, so why bring it up now? 

I suppose the cat’s already out of the bag, I would just monitor the situation and see if you can stomach him next year.

Post # 5
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Newbee

i think you’re right. you don’t want him there because he brings drama but if they are together then there is nothing you can do about that and if you told her she could bring a guest then she should be able to bring who she wants. the best thing for you to do is flip it around put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself how you would feel if you were told you couldn’t bring your boyfriend to your friends wedding because no one likes him. 

if you’re getting married in 2011 she may not even be with him at that point. you should just see how things play out and worry about it when it get closer to your big day.  

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