- 8 years ago
- Wedding: January 2010
So I used to be best friends with this girl in high school (we’ll call her H), and we have since drifted apart. Due to guest list constraints I was unable to invite her to the wedding, but I just received one of my other friends reply cards (we’ll call her J) and as her “and guest” she is bringing H.
I’m really excited about this, and am inviting J to both my b party and lingerie shower, which is the afternoon after my b party (so its kind of a weekend long girls extravaganza). The lingerie shower is just a few of my girlfriends, nothing big or extravagant. I would love to invite H to both, but should I only invite her to the b party so she doesn’t feel the need to get me a gift? The only reason I would consider inviting her to the shower is because she’s good friends with everyone there and its kind of a run-on from the b party (we may even have a sleepover after the b party that runs into the shower), but I know its an etiquette no-no to invite someone to the shower if they weren’t initially invited to the wedding. Ideas?