(Closed) Irritated.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@HappilyEverAfter54: Is he looking for a “thank you” for the card from the son? Maybe he took a lot of time to pick it out with him, if it was store bought?

Chat with him. See what’s up. If he’s soundly sleeping, maybe he’s just a tired kind of guy today?

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Maybe he had a shit day, and it had nothing to do with you. There are definitely days that my FI (and me, for that matter) just doesn’t want to talk to me, would rather read comic books and drink rum and then go to sleep. (Well, I don’t read comic books and drink rum – for me it’s more of, look at bridal magazines and eat Tasty Kakes.)

Good luck. If he seems in a more amicable mood next time you come across him, bring it up delicately. Maybe something at work upset him.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

He probably had a crappy day. I’d leave it alone unless it becomes an ongoing problem, then talk to him about it. Find out what is bothering him.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree that maybe he had a crappy day at school or something. Didn’t do so well on a test or something? Or maybe he is just extra tired. I would still talk to him and see what’s up. Maybe be like “Hey hun, I noticed you are being pretty distant lately, and was wondering if something is up? Are you upset with me?” You know whatever, if he says he is just tired, or having a bad day let him know you love him and are there if he needs to talk and just let him be.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

lol my guy is like this sometimes too. He won’t let me know something is wrong verbally, but I can tell by his behaviour. I think its just men sometimes. I guess they don’t want to seem vulnerable? FI and I have had lots of talks about this and hes trying to let me know how hes feeling more. Glad you figured him out 🙂

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