Irritated and upset

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2015 - Banquet Hall

What exactly do you mean by, “mom”? As for how you feel, I would be pissed lol. If it’s his actual mom, then why not all of you go do errands? If it’s not his real mom, then he should be with you!

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

He may feel like you didn’t want to run errands with him (my husband hates going shopping with me because I take forever) or maybe the roommate needed to do some errands before your husband left for two weeks (do you take her places she needs to go as well or just him?).

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper

ren89:  His relationship with that woman is kind of bizarre. Really, it’s time for Mom to get her own place already, or move in with another “kid”. What is his relationship with his real Mother like?

FWIW, I think you should tell him “Mom” can do his laundry.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

ren89:  Hmmm….It sounds like he really values the people in his life that he can consider “family”. I didn’t have the most awesome bio family either, so I can appreciate this. It’s a tough spot to be in OP. I think that you just need to reinforce to him that you really need more alone time with him, since you guys don’t live alone. I understand why you are so irritated by this.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

ren89:  That is something he needs to hear. Really, you are not wrong for how you are feeling at all.

My husband treated me like the maid when I got married seven years ago . I was seriously ready to start putting on a maid uniform to prove my point. It wasn’t going to be some sexy number either, I’m talking like, Alice from the Brady Bunch. He’s soooo much better now, but that’s a whole other thread 

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