(Closed) Is a first kiss more significant?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What is more significant to you in your relationship with FI?
    First Kiss : (37 votes)
    29 %
    First time having sex : (34 votes)
    27 %
    First time having sex will be when we do it : (5 votes)
    4 %
    other, explained below : (6 votes)
    5 %
    I think both are equally significant. : (44 votes)
    35 %
  • Post # 3
    9627 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Nope, don’t have this issue, I remember every single thing.  The first kiss, first time having sex, all of it.  πŸ˜‰

    Post # 4
    1068 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I remember it all. Everything with him was super significant.

    Post # 5
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I think the first kiss is the most memorable because it’s the first step into intimacy. Or maybe I’m just making excuses for me not remembering the other thing Tongue Out

    Post # 7
    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Our first kiss was a bit awkward and not particularly memorable. The first time we had sex was far, far more memorable. 

    That said, the thing that most stuck out about that first date was either that he held my hand in the car home, or the silly lap dance I gave him.

    Post # 8
    1737 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I can’t remember exactly when they both happened in our friendship/dating timeline, but I remember what happened for both very clearly. I think they are significant for different reasons. The kiss (April or May 2010) was our first step from just-friends into something more. And the sex (sometime in summer 2010) was our first step from just-dating to something more. So they’re both significant, just in different ways.

    Post # 9
    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I find the first time we had sex to be way more significant then our first kiss.

    Probably because I find sex to be way more intimate than kissing and I was a bit of a make-out whore in college.  πŸ˜‰

    Post # 10
    2831 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I would rather not remember the first time we were intimate LOL. It did not go well! Our first kiss was very sweet though.

    Post # 11
    1333 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    You know…my SO (hopefully one day FI!) pursued me at a party where we were both intoxicated.  I wanted nothing to do with him, as I was a stubborn gal, whom thought life being single was ‘better’.  He kept asking me out, I kept saying NO WAY!

    Fast forward a few hours, and a few drinks later, and he finally just went in for a kiss, that threw me off my game, and essentially knocked my socks off πŸ™‚ 

    It was at that point that I thought a ‘one night stand’ might not be a bad thing?! (*sad, but true*), so our Dirty Delete took us back to my house, and we were intimate for the first (and what I thought, ONLY time).  Needless to say, 2 years later, here we are…

    Had he not initiated or stole that kiss from me, and it was a pretty awesome kiss, I would have walked out of that party alone, and probably missed a life with the man of my dreams.  So, in that aspect it was significant.  The first time was pretty darn good too πŸ™‚

    Post # 12
    857 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Fiance and I were incredibly waaaasted, and to this day we do not know if our “first time” was the first night we spent together or not. Classy, right? The first kiss happened at some point that first night, though. We just dont remember it! 

    However, just a bit of back story, that makes our story a bit less scandalous (even though it’d be hilarious without it) – we were both after each other for YEARS and things never worked out, timing-wise – so when we ran into each other one night, at a concert and starting drinking … they never really stopped and here we are!


    Post # 13
    3078 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Our first kiss was also the first time we had sex so I have no problem remembering when that happened.  We had been seeing each other for almost 4 months prior to all of that.

    Post # 14
    2281 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Hey, for lots of people, that’s the same day πŸ™‚

    Post # 15
    1287 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2017 - Seattle, WA

    @ProfessorGirl:  It’s the same day for me!!  haha.

    Post # 16
    2697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Our first time having sex was may more significant as it was our first time. I think your responses may vary bases on #s of sex partners and general attitude toward sex.


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