is a proposal/marriage in my future?

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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18 posts
Newbee

@hazeleyez:  it could happen!! All the evidence you’ve gathered sounds promising. 

Post # 4
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1157 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@hazeleyez:  See how it plays out. A missing ring… maybe he took it up.

Wait a little maybe until after Christmas. If he doesn’t bring up the topic at anytime between now and then, well I believe that you should bring it up.

I wish you the best!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It could happen someday.  I would just enjoy your relationship as it is!  Don’t worry about the proposal just yet.  He loves you and you have a wonderful time together – just focus on that.

Post # 6
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320 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Restaurant

I think if you really want to get engaged soon, you need to bring up the topic again and tell him so.  You told him you wanted to wait 10 years, which is probably an exaggeration, but he is going to take this as a sign that you want to take your time and at least wait a few more years.

Tell him how you feel… otherwise you might be waiting for a long time and get pretty disappointed when you have a big trip, Christmas comes, and nothing.  Once he gives you some kind of timeline, even if it’s to wait a few years, at least you know.

Post # 7
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158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

@hazeleyez:  You said that you told him you didn’t want to be married for ten years. Was that the truth? If so I’m just curious why its bugging you so much. Is it because you are afraid that he may propose and you think its too soon or are you anxious because you have changed your mind and decided that you really do want to marry him sooner?

 

Let’s say you knew a proposal was imminent… how do you feel about it. Be honest with yourself.

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