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    honeyoats22    December 2011   Florida

    It's a good thing FI likes to cook because I hate it. I haven't cooked since I started dating FI 3 years ago, and it shows.

    He works night shifts, and I just cooked myself dinner. ... I'm really more of a baker....

    Here's to hoping he can make it taste like food when he gets home. I can't even finish a small bowl of this slop. *face palm*

    Anyone else not a cook?

     
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    honeyoats22    December 2011   Florida

    Anyone? lol

     
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    bookwormbride    October 27, 2012   Oklahoma

    Me! I am an awful cook. I am lucky to be marrying a sous chef. lol

     
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    mrsbruff2b    June 20, 2012   Canada (wedding in Cancun)

    I hate cooking. We eat out a lot. XD

     
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    Duck Face    January 14, 2012  

    We eat out all the time because I don't cook. Sad.

     
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    NDBee    March 10, 2012  

    I don't cook either. It's not that I can't, I just hate the time it takes and I REALLY hate the clean-up. Mr.ND likes to cook, so I'm a lucky gal :-)

     
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    Jayparadise    July 9, 2011   Toronto

    I am okayyyy lol basics

     
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    kirabee       Venice, CA

    I am terrible!! Luckily my boyfriend will eat anything. He will NEVER say something I cooked is bad even when I've stopped eating it and I'm begging him to stop! Either he has an iron stomach or he's just very sweet. Wink

     
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    Ree723    July 9, 2011   Australia

    I wouldn't say I'm a terrible cook, I just don't like to do it very often.  Fortunately, DH absolutely LOVES to cook and finds it a stress reliever after work.  He also loves spending weekend days in the kitchen trying out new recipes and he nearly always nails it.   I am a very good baker though and also do quite well with cooking oven based meals (i.e. roasts, lasagne etc).   DH and I joke around that he's the master of the stove and I'm the master of the oven.  It works for us.

    Of course I'm a stay at home wife so I should have a hot meal on the table when DH comes home from work, but alas, he's not that lucky.  I love to clean though so he comes home to an impeccable house and all of the groceries purchased - he just needs to put them together for our dinner!  Not a terrible compromise, right?  ;-)

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    I'm one of the worst...ever.

    FI is a huge cook though. His grandfather used to have his own restaurant, so FI knows how to make all the good "Southern" food...that's delicious, but bad for my waist-line. Lol.

    I seriously like, never cook. I'll do the clean-up. I'll help prep if he wants me to... Lol.

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    @Ree723: Exactly ;) I'm a cleaner/organizer/planner too.

     
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    Angelz_love    June 16, 2012   San Francisco

    I'm not a terrible cook i just hate to cook. FI is an amazing cook! Me and my son often ate like college kids. top ramen, oatmeal, and toast and lots of raw veggies lol!

     
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    galloway111    June 16, 2012   WI

    I'm an okay cook but I absolutely HATE it. There are many times when I don't want to cook so much that I just don't eat anything, lol. FI is a great cook and enjoys it most of the time, but I try to help him out by getting the ingredients and supplies together, and helping clean up and serving the food. I feel bad making him do everything if I don't, since he's pretty good about household chores.

     
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    abirdword    September 30, 2012   California

    don't have a whole lot of experience cooking - so yes, I'm a terrible cook.  For that reason I just follow recipes and try to keep things simple.  When I do cook, I feel REALLY self-conscious about it.  The ironic thing is I can eat something and can dissect pretty quickly seasonings used, how it was cooked, etc.  So I have a good sense of ingredients, but don't have great execution.

     
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    Lala61111    June 11, 2011  

    Ha! I am also a terrible cook. We have a running joke in the house that I only know how to cook things "Cajun Style"...aka BLACKENED! I burn everything. It doesn't matter if I follow a recipe or even turn the burner lower than it says to. It's ALWAYS burnt.

    Oddly enough, I can bake like a queen! I make a mad homemade pumpkin pie from scratch and the best chocolate chip cookies you will ever have! ...Yeah, I'm tootin' my own horn on that one! :)

    Thankfully, DH is a fantastic cook and he LOVES to do it. He's made it pretty clear that I will never have to lift a finger in kitchen for the rest of my days unless it's too bake dessert. I'm pretty lucky!

    Regardless, this is one skill I wish I had!!

     
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    stardustintheeyes    September 20, 2013   Chicago

    in general im not a bad cook. however coming from a mexican\italian family background there are certain things that should be no brainers for me and i just ruin em every. single. time. like mexican rice. fml!!!! no matter how hard i try i cant get it right. its either too crunchy or soo soggy or bland or too salty or something. its never once been right. not even once. I also cant cook albondigas (meatball soup) either. there is a method to this and my gram does it perfectly. my meatballs fall apart because myt iming is off or ill forget to add something and throw everything off. i gave up on those two things.

     
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    I am not a terrible cook, I just absolutely hate to cook! Because I hate cooking so much I have always rejected any opportunity to learn how. Thankfully my boyfriend loves to cook and is a great cook! I am so useless in the kitchen if he tells me to watch something that is cooking I freak out, I have no idea what I am watching for, how do I know when it's done, or if it's over done. I will sometimes help by cutting things up for him. But I am SO lucky he is a good cook and likes to do it, I have zero interest in learning.

     
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    Miss Longcoat    March 31, 2012   Woodbridge, VA

    I'm actually a good cook but I wanted to share a recipe with you for the perfect pan-fried steak.

     

    Get 2 really good, 3/4"-1" steaks like New York Strips or Ribeyes.  Salt and pepper both sides of them.

    Put your frying pan on medium high for about 2 minutes to preheat. Melt a small pat of butter in the pan.

    Put the steaks down in the pan and cook them for 3 minutes on the first side, 4 minutes on the 2nd side, then 3 minutes on the first side again. Let the steaks rest on a plate 5 minutes before serving.

     

    That's it!  Don't shake the pan, don't do anything fancy, they'll turn out perfect every time.  If they're really thick, you might want to cover the pan for the last 2 minutes of cooking.  These take so little effort, I make my salad and nuke some baking potatoes while they are cooking.

     
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    honeyoats22    December 2011   Florida

    OMG Yay! I thought I was the only one. lol!

     

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