(Closed) Is anyone else afraid…

posted 6 years ago in Themes
Post # 3
Member
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@lilgrizzlygirl: That panic is starting to set in now (5 months and 16 days out…but who’s counting?). I know that I’ll pull it all together, though. AND, I keep reassuring myself that nobody knows that I planned it to look like, so as long as it looks decent, they’ll never know the difference or that I’m not satisfied with every little detail.

Post # 4
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2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@indibee:AHHHHHHHHHHH 5 mths left!!! I HAVE SO MUCH TO DOCry

Post # 5
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2584 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m wedding planning with the idea that everything we do will represent us perfectly, and while yeah I want the colors to match and all, nothing needs to go together or “flow” as long as it’s all us. People won’t pay attention to little details.

I think if you stay true to yourselves and what you want at the wedding, whether that’s a theme or mood or just randomness, it will come together. People will be focusing more on you two anyway 🙂

Then again, I’m still 9 months out so maybe the stress hasn’t set in, lol. But I’m just enjoying the ride 🙂

Post # 6
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5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MrsStrawberry24: I know. I feel so far ahead of the game, but then way behind the 8ball as well. We’ve got the biggies down (caterer, venue, church, photo, dj) but I need to pick a damn cake/cupcake/whatever!, figure out flowers, make my brooch bouquet, etc, etc. I made a list the other day while at work and I had to flip my page because it was WAY too much reality for me to deal with. Lol!

Post # 7
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2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@indibee: i had a wedding planner that we had to fire (urgh long story) so i have to hire a DOC, find a hwole new wedding dress because i almost burnt down HOB over my first one, and pick out invites….oh and block off rooms at one more hotel because my family has already booked up all the other rooms…..i have a wedding task list on my driod and it has become my worst enemy!!!

Post # 9
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1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i was freaking out til my FI took over. whew! happy now!

Post # 10
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270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2001

@indibee:

My cousin is getting married the same day as you!  Have fun with your plannng!

Post # 11
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1992 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m not afraid of this myself, but everytime I come up with another idea my mom tells me that I’m getting too ahead of myself, which leads me to believe that in others’ eyes it will be a hot mess…. whatever I have a vision!!  lol

Post # 12
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5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Angelz_love: Jealous! I feel like I’m dragging Mr.ND to appointments. I mean, I get that he doesn’t enjoy some of the stuff like invites, but really, it’s not like I love to do them either, it just has to get done.

@35thannidaughter: Fun! Down in AZ? I’m guessing it’d be a much nicer day somewhere warm. I’m just hoping there’s no blizzard 🙂 Hehe.

@MrsStrawberry24: Ick…I’ve avoided my knot checklist like the plague lately. Denial works, right? 

Post # 13
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270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2001

@indibee:

It’s going to be in San Antonio, so it’ll still be warm!  I hope you don’t have a blizzard!

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