(Closed) Is anyone else cheating….

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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877 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’ve only referred to him as my husband a few times when talking to strangers.  The word “fiance” just takes more effort to say and husband seems to roll off my tongue easier!  Since I’m keeping my name, I haven’t had any issues with the use of any new name.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

no, i still feel weird saying “husband”!  hopefully that will pass in the next year and 5 months! Fiance is fine by me ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 5
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546 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I don’t really.  When other people say husband I don’t correct them though.  It’s a lot easier to avoid a bunch of when are you getting married questions.

And I did make a new email, but I haven’t looked at it since.

Post # 6
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2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yes, I refer to him as my husband all the time. But I’ve not gone as far as to sign anything with myfirst hislast yet. I’m scared it’ll open the floodgates ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 7
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139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m guilty as well. I also have an email with my to be married name. I don’t use it yet though really. If we see someone from HS and it’s awkward we say we’re married. 

 

I do wear my wedding band though, but it’s a Hungarian tradition to do so. I’ve had a few cashiers look at me strangely and ask if I’m married (I look 15). Sometimes I say yes if they’re rude about it hehehe.

Post # 8
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11 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My coworkers have already started calling me by my new last name.. but other than that, I’m saving the word ‘husband’ for when we get hitched ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We’re already legally married (immigration drama) so I let “husband” slip all the time…saying “fiance” takes effort as in my head we’re already a done deal! I can’t wait until September has come and gone so I can say “husband” already ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We own a home together so most people who come over to work on the house (movers, carpet cleaner, gutter installer etc) assume he is my husband and it’s easier to just agree with them!

Also, FI’s name is 5 letters long and my last name is 13 letters long. I really don’t want to change my last name (although I will), but I give out his last name all the time. I probably do it the most for restaurant reservations. It’s SO much easier!

Post # 11
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404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Guilty! Like a week after we got engaged, I grabbed the gmail address I wanted with my new last name.

I usually call him my fiance, unless it is to my advantage to call him my husband.  For example, I was at work and got stuck on a tour bus with a bunch of kids and a really creepy older bus driver.  He kept hitting on me, so I started talking about my “husband” and that ended pretty quickly, but not entirely. Old men are so gross sometimes!

 

Post # 12
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144 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

yeah, i either refer to him as my husband or bf, fiance is a pain in the butt word, when people here it they are like, your what? like they’ve never heard it before

Post # 14
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18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Usually those spots say husband/fiance/next of kin so I usually put him on there anyway before I was married.  I never used his name before we were married or called him my husband though.

Post # 15
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761 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I did this at the other day when I was filling out new doctor paperwork too! It seemed easier that way! When I am at work and the UPS guy comes in though and asks for the last name to sign for packages I always want to use FI’s but get nervous and blurt out mine.

Post # 16
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2788 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I haven’t yet, but I think once the date gets closer I will start. 

@smith207 : Thanks for the great idea!! I just made a new gmail account!

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