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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    Okay, I mean that much lighter than it sounds!  I just am slightly freaking out!  I am changing my mind a million times, all of a sudden I want petit fours or mini cheesecakes instead of cupcakes and to get ready by myself, and uuuggh!  And now I want certain family members there... I am just ...well, obsessing, really!

    I know someday this will all seem like less of a huge deal, but right now- everything feels so important since I am in it!

     

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    Anyone?

     
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    Hillbilly Princess    August 7, 2010   Yorkville, Illinois

    I know how you're feeling mines in 22 days, I feel like everything I planned is going to suck. LOL I also have this habit now of adding more because I'm afraid it won't be enough. It's like my brain is going a mile a minute and I can't keep up!

     
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    grass    July 24, 2010   boston, ma

    There are a few things that are making me slightly freak out....random family comments, the word wife (seriously!), and my parents/family being more stressed out than me.  The next 8 days should be stress-free (somewhat), and all that small stuff is getting on my last nerve!  We're almost there girl!  :)

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    @Hillbilly- exactly!  I am going way overboard with details.  I keep adding more and more too!  I just want everyone to be happy, and my wedding is only a small group of people! 

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    @grass- LOL Yeah!  We ARE almost there!  I have had this goofy feeling like I'll never make it!  I just can't wait until that moment when I have survived!  Talk about nerves- my MOH is having a tantrum- I just think- why NOW!  (I'm stressed enough!)

     
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    VirginiaMarie    January 2011   Austin, TX

    freaking majorly.   crying randomly.   cannot wait for this to pass.

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    @Virginia- me too!  I argued with FI about three times last night.  I can't sleep!

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    AND the stress is making me crave ice cream and unhealthy snacks :/  It is so hard to look at last minute desert ideas and not NEED some right now.

     
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    VirginiaMarie    January 2011   Austin, TX

    @cbee: tell me about it.  I just housed an entire thing of salt and vinegar pringles.

     
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    grass    July 24, 2010   boston, ma

    You guys are hysterical....but it is taking every ounce of restraint to not eat every last piece of dark chocolate in my apartment (I think there are 3 bars in my fridge...hahaha).  :)  I bought sugar free fudgesicles for those weak moments! 

     
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    Ngolden1    August 22, 2010   Albany, NY

     Yes. Dread-like feelings of anxiety. Is this rather unpleasant for anyone else? I keep reminding myself it will be over soon...that's not good is it.

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    @grass- nice!  I could NEVER let any chocolate be around me and go un-eaten!  I am just afraid I won't fit in my wedding gown- so tight already in spots!

    The other day I bought those "100 calorie" Klondike bars- and I ate every single one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    @Virginia- that sounds so good.

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    @Ngolden- I know, I sure hope I can get some sleep in the next ten days or no one is going to recognize me!  I'll be like the hulk or something!  I hate that I am excited for it all to be over!

     
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    marjojo    July 24, 2010   Nashville

    I'm with you ladies! I just finished crying helplessly to my mom because I have knee pain that might bother me on the wedding day. It will definitely keep me from exercising the way I have been between now and the wedding (I may have overdone things with 2 hours a day at the gym for the past 3-4 weeks). And if I don't go to the gym, I won't be able to burn off the things I've been eating that have been tempting me!

    Also, I can't find a psalm that doesn't make me feel like my interfaith family is not blessed by God. And no psalm means I can't print the programs and that item remains on the to-do list.

    And my hair got dyed the wrong color last week.

     
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    belledowdy    August 14, 2010   Vermont

    Yeah, 27 days out and I'm really looking forward to the wedding but I'm not sleeping and I have to work REALLY hard at not freaking out about things (deep breaths, deep breaths).

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    @marjojo- aw, hair color, knee pain, psalm difficulty!  (Hugs)

    @belledowdy- me too!  I have had trouble sleeping, weird dreams, and I have been fighting more with FI :/

    I finally ordered my deserts today- decided on mini cheesecakes, so that is one more thing off the list, but I need to find some nice napkins still.  At least I think I am losing weight from stress!

    I have to whiten my teeth :( I have been putting it off, but now 9 days to the wedding and it is a 10 day box :(  So yucky!  I feel like I am on fulltime wedding obsession mode!

     
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    SweetheartDealer    August 7, 2010   LA/ Wedding in Sonoma, CA

    Yup, I am! 19 days and it's 2:30 AM and I'm wide awake. Gotta be at work at 9. BUt oh how the mind is racing...

     
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    ssandy    July 31, 2010  

    I'm... I've been acting like a mad woman lately and I've weird dreams. Yell I'm so looking forward to the day and can't wait till it's over.

     
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    livewell    July 24, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    Totally freaking out. Awake and can't sleep. Excited and scared. Scared my nerves won't hold out the week.... But we'll survive this! Soon it will all be over and we can relax. Can't wait! No negative feelings about having a wedding... it's just that I can barely handle the excitement :) Afraid of going bonkers!!!!

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I am so nervous!  I need to relax.  I dropped off my dress yesterday to get pressed and I asked about 6,000 questions, left, and came back in and asked some more!  I went out after with FI for a couple Cosmos and some live music and pizza.  It was lovely.

     

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