Post # 1
I am SO sick of all of this wedding stuff. We have 10 days to go and I cannot wait for the day to be here. But honestly, I think I’m just ready to be married to him and have the day over. I’m looking more forward to the honeymoon than anything. If I had to go back and do it all over again, I think I would prefer to go to the beach somewhere with our families and just do it there. All of this wedding stuff has been mainly stress, tears, and drama. I CAN’T WAIT for it to be over with. Does anyone else feel the same way?
Post # 3
Me!! Me me me!!
And its still 2.5 month until our wedding…
There is just SO much to juggle… <.<
Post # 4
@EmeraldTiger: I agree. So many details and I feel like I have a black cloud over my head ALL OF THE TIME. I am a pretty drama free person, but the last few weeks has been nothing but drama (things that people are just now bringing up but should have brought up a LONG time ago if they had a problem with it). I am so happy that we will be living 8 hours away from our families. There are so many people that I cannot wait to not have to be around for awhile.
Post # 5
@Hanahilly Me too! We are date twins, so I can relate. I’m so over it. I’m over the millions of dress fittings. I’m over the paying out the wazoo for last minute details. I’m over not sleeping and not eating. I’m ready to have the wedding, party, honeymoon and get back to NORMAL!
Post # 6
@hannahlily: Wow….Did I somehow write this?
I totally feel this way right now.
FI’s family drama, my mom being in the hospital, I am doing all this planning by myself, I barely see my fiance’ anymore because he is working so much for this wedding….I am just done right now.
Wait…I have two months to go still? Damnit.
Post # 7
I’m a year out, and yup. I’m dying to be done with all the planning. I haven’t had anything particularly awful happen yet, but I figure it’s because I’m still so far out.
Post # 8
I’m with you! I have one month to go and I can’t wait to get it over with. There hasn’t been any drama but I am SICK Of people I barely know asking to see pictures of my dress and all kinds of questions about the wedding. I’m also tired of people making such a big deal about stupid stuff that doesn’t matter. Apparently I’m going to bridal hell because I’m not throwing a bouquet. I am so much more focused on marrying my man and starting our lives together. Isn’t that the important part?
Post # 9
Me!! one month to go and a boat load of things to do. Somehow my simple beach wedding turned out to be everything but simple. I just want to be married and have my weekends back already!
Post # 10
@rizzlemethis: Me too! I wanted a beach wedding with immediate family and now its like 80 people and is costing as much/more than a wedding back home. ugh!
Post # 11
YES! I get married MONDAY and am ready for the honeymoon. So over it! LOL
Post # 12
Sweet jeebies YES.
Late September can’t come soon enough. The guest list is giving me agita, I’m second guessing every purchase I’ve made (dress, shoes, rings, headpiece…). I’m desperately resisting the urge to keep shopping and re-shopping.
I honestly wish I pushed harder to elope. 🙁
Post # 13
@lilcafe: I feel the exact same way about those exxact same things!
Yes, yes, yes I can not wait for all of this stress to go away. I always said I couldn’t imagine spending so much on 1 day and yet it has happened. I just want to be married to the love of my life and have life go back to normal……..looking forward to July 28th 🙂
Post # 14
@Loubride: we are not doing bouquete or garter toss and i don’t think it is a big deal not to do it.
it wasn’t done at the last 3 weddings i went to either.
Post # 15
@hannahlily: YES! So many of my friends keep telling me I should enjoy this time and that it’s worth it. If I had to do it all over again I would have a small destination wedding. It can’t be worth be this stressed out and busy. I just want to relax and not worry about a wedding anymore!
Post # 16
- Wedding: September 2013 - Ontario, Canada
@lilcafe: I am exactly the same!! I put it down to the fact that I have been planning this for 2 years so am over thiking things. Thankfully most of it is now done and I only have the small details to finalise but I am on high alert all the time as I just know that a drama bomb will drop at some point.
I am totally at the point now where I feel over it and I can’t be bothered with arranging anything else. It’s almost more of a chore than fun at this point. I just want the day to come so that we can get on with our (married) lives….