(Closed) Is anyone else taken aback by how much love they have?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yes! I do stuff like that all the time – and then I’ll stop and think “wow, I really really really love this man”. It’s like having a bit of a weird out of body experience πŸ™‚ It’s a good thing!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I love this post! I think about this ALL the time. With my ex of 5 years, I didn’t trust him AT ALL. We went through many many things & he had hurt me very badly. I could hardly trust him to go golfing with the guys. It was horrible! And sooo miserable. Some of you ladies know that once you’ve been hurt, it’s hard to trust again. Me & the FI had known each other for a while and helped each other get out of our bad relationships. It’s been hard for me to do this, but I trust my FI 100% and we go out without each other often! I would never be able to do this with the ex.

There are so many things that I do different, like give him hugs out of no where, send him sweet texts, etc. Life’s good now πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yes!  But, shh!  Don’t tell anyone.

I was seriously the most unromantic, scroogy person ever.  All of my previous relationships failed for the same reason – I just didn’t care enough about the relationship aspect.  (though, if you want to stay good friends with exes, this is an EXCELLENT reason to break up while keepign things amicable)  I had a girl break up with me right around Valentine’s Day b/c she couldn’t deal with my sarcastic comments about it being a stupid holiday and wanting to watch horror movies. A guy tell me he wasn’t ready to get physically serious with me because he knew I wasn’t the woman he was going to marry (my reaction of “duh, let’s get it on anyway” did not go over so well).

I try (and probably fail) to hide it, but with my partner, we are are very sweet and affectionate and even (gasp!) sappy.  He was the same way as me in the past, as well, so we are alternately touched and horrified by how sweet and cutesy we are with each other.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Yes!! I was awful to most of my ex BF’s and I think it’s b/c I didn’t really love or respect any of them. Not that they were bad guys, I just didn’t feel that way. It is soooo different with FI, I can’t even describe how much I love him I would do anything for the guy. I am a totally different person with him, that’s how I know! πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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Helper bee

Yes!!! Before I got into a serious relationship with my FI I was in a horrible relationship with my ex. He was both phyically and mentally abusive, I never trusted him he is  a liar….With my FI he is just the best πŸ™‚ I have known him for years and knew he was a sweetie but when we got into a serious relationship I had a moment one day that was like WOW this is what love feels like that…Before FI, I never felt this type of love…I am so different with him and he makes me better…we better each other…

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

There are moments in my marriage when I start to get irritated with my wonderful husband .  Those moments are usually fleeting and I realize how irritable I am being. 

Then, more often, there are those moments when DH does something so special and dear and thoughtful that I think to myself, “How did I get so lucky???” and remember that for all his little tiny flaws, they are strongly out-weighed by his super sweet and thoughtful ways. I love this man and I am So lucky!  Just this morning, he got up early and went outside in a snow storm to clean off my whole car and defrost it. 

We are lucky to be so loved. πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I was JUST thinking this last night! I never knew I could love someone this dang much. It’s overwhelming.

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

i was definitely thinking about this recently, everything in my life is coming along the way that i am wanting it to, it’s like wow this is what it’s like when you are with the right person doing the right thing and very right things start happening, you know?

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yup. πŸ™‚ I agree with the “out of body experience” comment. Sometimes I can’t believe I am so lucky to be so in love!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Absolutely. He’s turned me into a mushy, romantic, cries a lot girl (in a good way), that actually socializes with complete strangers (none of which I was before I met him). From the moment I met him, I knew he was special. There was a comfort there I’ve never felt with anyone else in the world. I felt like I’d known him all my life, though we had only met face to face that day. Sometimes I find myself staring at him as he does the simplest things and there will be tears streaming down my cheeks. I feel like I found a gem in a world of coal. He completeles me in the normal “we finish eah other sentences sort of way”, but in a much deeper way where he understands what I’m trying to say even when I don’t say a word. It amazes me how quickly 4yrs has passed. I want it to slow down so I can enjoy each second. I look forward to the next 40 and what it has to bring for us.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Okay this is lame, but it makes me cry how much I love Mr. KM. Seriously. And I realize how lame that is, but he’s such an awesome person and sometimes he gets so down on himself! And it’s completely ridiculous. Everyone we work with (we work together) thinks its totally pathetic that I bring/ make his lunch every day. But I know that if I didn’t, he’d just go to Subway- which is across a semi-busy side road and I don’t want him walking over there!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Yes! I love Mr. HoneyBear so much. Word cant explain it…Sometimes I can’t believe that I found “one of the good ones” lol

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I remember seeing this cartoon years ago (I think it was the family circus?) that said “Love doesn’t divide. It multiplies.” Which is exactly how I feel about my SO. I discover more love every day, and it’s amazing! I feel like we’re starting out on an adventure and we’re going to find an unfathomable capacity to love along the way.

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