Post # 1
So I bought my dress over a year ago..it was the 2nd dress I tried on.I was Really in love with it when I got it. It’s a really pretty all over Lace Paloma Blanca (see below)
The problem is, I don’t get that “Aahhh” anymore… I don’t really even feel that “dressy” in it..
so this is what I am thinking..
Buy a sample ballgown dress for cheap, make the grand enterance in that..then change into my simple Paloma blanca for the reception (it doesn’t have much of a train, and would be pretty simple to walk around, dance in)
Do you guys think I’m crazy? Should I just wear my Paloma blanca? what are your thoughts?
Here is one of the bridesmaids dresses, below is the dress I already own..and the picture below is the dress I am thinking about buying…
Post # 3
I think the Paloma Blanca is absolutely gorgeous and it looks great on you!
However, if you’re not feeling it & getting another dress is within your budget, then why not?
Post # 4
2 is great. its your day.
Post # 5
If you want two, and can afford it, then go for it. I think the one you already have looks great on you! But if you want two, then have two – it’s your one shot to be the bride!
Post # 6
Will it feel all dressed up with the veil and jewelry and everything? i just feel like replacing a wedding dress can be a waste of money. Everyone has second doubts about their dress (I did!) but I think i would have felt silly afterwards, spending another thousand or so, when in hindsight, the first dress just needed to be put on with all the bells and whistles.
But hey, i know a girl who had 3 wedding dresses…=]
Post # 7
I really love the Paloma Blanca dress! I say keep it, wear it all day/night long, and spend your money elsewhere!
Post # 8
I had lots of dress doubts and they were justified as I received my dress and not happy with it at all. I should’ve listened to my gut all along and bought a second dress months ago. I feel bad wasting it so I’m probably going to wear it for the reception, but probably going to wear a different dress I feel better in for the ceremony and most importantly for the pics below. I spent $4000 on the photog and if I hate looking at those photos the rest of my life that is a bigger waste of money than buying a second dress. So, I voted for wear both!
Post # 9
go with whatever you feel like a “princess” in!
I think the Paloma Blanca dress looks great on you!!
Post # 10
The Paloma Blanca dress looks GORGEOUS on you, and I think it will be a grand entrance when you have that on, since it’s so perfect. The ballgown is kind of boring…
Post # 11
I voted for the ballgown before I knew there were photos. I like them both. I was voting for the ballgown assuming that one was simple… as in a sheath and the other was grand. But both choices are lovely. I wouldn’t go with an extra gown the lace gown is lovely and it’s the style of your choice. I love the ballgown too… but I guess I’d pick my absolute favorite dress to wear and save the other styles for other occasions…
Post # 12
Go with what you want!! However, keep in mind that the more brides look/try on their dresses, the more they get doubts. If you loved it at first, you still do…you are just second guessing yourself.
Post # 13
Honestly I love the Paloma Blanca, maybe you could try and dress it up a bit more with statement earings, bracelet, hair piece and or veil, etc. Its very dressy in my opinion!
Edit: I just took another look at the veil your wearing you could DEF dress that up a bit with some sparkle or lace edging and new veil would def be less then a new dress.
Post # 14
You look amazing in the Paloma Blanca. But if you want two, go for it!
Post # 15
wear both, if they make you happy and fit in the budget
p dot s, i love the BM dress. good choice!
Post # 16
i agree with the others….if u want 2…go for it! the ballgown would be gorgeous for the ceremony, and the other for the reception!
5% of all brides are a “2 gown” bride….from my latest Brides magazine 😉
be in the minority!