Is he or isn't he? How did you know?

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
22 posts

I don’t think you’re working yourself up over nothing! It sounds like–if anything–he’s catapaulting hints at you. Also, I think it’s very sweet that he’s asking you a bunch of questions about your preferences/ideas as they relate to engagement/marriage. 

Post # 3
1302 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

!!! awww your boyfriend sounds super sweet! and it definitely sounds like a proposal is on its way 🙂 welcome to the pre-engaged state haha. and he said he could help you with the marriage part?! sounds like a done deal!

maybe you should give him a few pointers on what kind of ring you want, so he knows you’re serious about this too. good luck and keep us updated! ^____^ 


Post # 4
1302 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

also, three months before my FI proposed, we were going to a ton of weddings together and he kept commenting on venues and what he preferred. or he’d say he could see us getting married there. then he asked me what kind of ring i could see myself wearing and what kind of proposal would be ideal. i said that’s exciting and it didn’t matter, because any proposal sounded good to me!

we’d been dating for 11 months but i knew when i met him that he was the ONE for me, even though i didn’t believe in that concept that until i met him. the fact that he waited a few more months after talking about all this engagement and marriage stuff drove me UP THE WALL and i went crazy towards the end, just waiting and waiting. i became very emotional and it was not a pleasant sight.

so my best advice is don’t stress yourself up with this and just enjoy this moment, knowing soon you will spend the rest of this life with this wonderful man. 🙂 

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by  catpeaches.
Post # 5
724 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I think he’s being pretty obvious, and maybe stop shooting him down and meet him at his excited state! lol

Post # 6
2114 posts
Buzzing bee

HateSecrets2323:  i dont want to get your hopes up, but it does sound like something is in the works! Maybe if not during the time away, not too long after.

It is very promising indeed, but just try to enjoy your time together before the move!

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